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• --- Loneliness. ---
• Anonymous Counsellor (2025-08-30 19:08 ID:ReTVJB9j )
• How do you cope with loneliness, Anonymous Counsellor? \n\n In nearly 4 decade I've never had any friends. Normally I'm pretty good at being comfortable with my solitude but every so often it overwhelms me and I start to feel like garbage. How do you deal with that? Right now books and games (my usual go to) aren't enough and while I tend to just sleep a lot, I can't sleep all the time. \n\n Please give me some ideas on how to ignore/cope with that, or suggestions for things to do to occupy my time. I finally finished sorting my stamp collection recently which was fun, but now I need something else to obsess with. \n\n
• Anonymous Counsellor (2025-10-08 23:40 ID:9UlHyB8S )
• >>2 \n\n I have, but I don't know how to interact with people because my brain doesn't understand it. The obsessive mediums don't make me lonely, it's just sometimes they aren't sufficient to make me not feel lonely. \n\n I guess there's no solution, though. Oh well...I have a good sci-fi book that has kept me occupied now. That's fun. \n\n
• Anonymous Counsellor (2025-10-08 23:54 ID:D65GJ0Oq )
• >>3 try to join a hobby meet, they are a great environment to learn to socialise. Everyone there already has a common interest and opinions about it - I’m sure there’s a sci-fi book group you could piggyback. Don’t force connections, just participate and gradually it will get easier. \n\n
• Anonymous Counsellor (2025-10-10 05:42 ID:soRCQ/U2 )
• >>3 Honest question. Have you not considered you may have some form of Autism? \n\n
• Anonymous Counsellor (2025-10-17 22:44 ID:fLBeCfCh )
• Feeling awful lonesome tonight \n\n
• Anonymous Counsellor (2025-11-22 20:18 ID:ToRb7hBU )
• You just dont need to be lonely. How about we kill some time in a conversation? Thats temporary solution, but so is every thing in life. Dm me in telegram for example: @cowsha Or leave any other contact info. Ofc if you wish to. \n\n
• Anonymous Counsellor (2025-11-26 00:50 ID:UBj76D82 )
• Psshh!!! Yeah right!!! Didn't Mommy ever tell you not to accept DM invitations from strangers right after (well....3 months after) declaring yourself to be mentally weak and vulnerable?! C'mon, OP...use your HEAD! \n\n >>4 -kun's got the right idea--it will be infinitely more difficult at first but the solutions to your problem actually exist in other people and the outside world, NOT bakayaros on the internet!! \n\n So now you know!! and Knowing's half the fuckin' battle, dude!!! \n\n
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